Midlife Magic: Rediscovering Joy and Purpose
Later this week I'll be turning 42 and my heart has been calling to me. It’s been whispering of changes for my life, art and dreams. Every day we spend on this beautiful planet is limited and precious. This year, I am committed to following the gentle whispers of my heart.
Below are a few of the whispers fluttering around my heart like butterflies, whispering sweet tales of dreams and hopes. Each secret is a tiny piece of my soul, begging to be followed. These whispers are my truth, softly echoing the desires and dreams that guide me through life.
Celebrate
I've realized I’m basically a non-celebrater when it comes to birthdays, holidays and even tiny victories. But lately, I've realized the importance of taking the time to acknowledge these moments. Celebrating things no matter how small, can bring happiness and joy to our lives. They’re perfect for hitting the pause button and savoring our wins, plus they can totally strengthen our connections with others when we share the love. I'm starting to see that celebrating doesn’t need to be a grand spectacle; it could be as simple as indulging in my favorite treat, sharing the event/accomplishment with a friend, or just taking a moment to reflect on how far I’ve come.
Never Settle
Knowing exactly what I want and refusing to settle for anything less is a big one for me. It’s all about focusing on my dreams and setting serious boundaries that align with my true self. This mindset empowers me to make decisions that reflect my authentic self, ensuring that I pursue paths that genuinely make me happy. Whether in relationships, career choices, or personal growth, staying true to what I want will help me navigate life with confidence and purpose. Sure, it won’t always be easy, but the joy of living a life that makes my heart happy? Totally worth it!
Staying Positive
Focusing on what I want rather than what I don’t helps me to cultivate a mindset of abundance and positivity. By zeroing in on my desires and goals, I’m creating a mental garden where growth and success can thrive. This perspective shift will help me spot opportunities rather than roadblocks and encourage me to reach for my dreams. It will empower me to visualize a future filled with possibilities, making every step toward my dreams a delightful adventure full of joy and happiness.
Control
I can’t control others or life's curveballs, but I can choose my reactions. In every situation, I have the power to choose my attitude and actions, embracing positivity, resilience, and understanding. By focusing on my own thoughts, emotions, and behaviors—I can accept life’s challenges with wisdom and a smile. It's empowering to know that my response can shape my experiences and contribute to my growth and happiness.
Removing Fear
I’m putting fear behind me and embracing what I love. Chasing after what makes my heart sing fills me with a sense of fulfillment that I once only dreamed about. Suddenly, the world is bursting with color, and those far-off opportunities are within reach. Embracing what I love has opened doors to new friendships, experiences, and a deeper understanding of my soul. Each day is a new adventure, and I am ready to face it head on with courage and excitement.
As a creative soul, I know I will always yearn for new opportunities, a life of happiness and the magic of creating my dreams. This is a new year, a new start, a blank canvas if you will and I’m ready for it to be my best one yet!
I'd love to know:
What life lessons are you making a priority this year? Tell me in a comment below!
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